Work’s hectic, the kids are sick, the in laws are in town… and now your back pain has flared up too? What are the chances!?!?
Surprisingly… quite high.
When life is running at your normal pace, a bit of stress can actually be a good thing. Imagine you are just about to walk into a big job interview, deliver a presentation to a crowded room, or sprint to catch a bus. In those moments, your body cleverly shifts resources to help you perform. Your heart rate increases, your brain sharpens and your muscles prime for action. Systems that are not needed for survival, such as digestion and reproduction, temporarily slow down.
This response is driven by hormones such as adrenaline and cortisol, often called the body’s stress chemicals. They keep you alert, strong and fast. Once the stressful event passes, your hormone levels should settle back to normal. Your body can then return to digesting breakfast, restoring energy to muscles and repairing any tightness or micro tears from that quick burst of activity.
When stress does not switch off
Problems arise when stress becomes constant. Deadlines stack up, family commitments increase, the sleep debt grows and sometimes a single major event can throw everything out of balance.
In these situations, cortisol levels can stay elevated for days, weeks or even longer. When that happens, your body struggles to heal effectively. Pain hangs around longer. Muscles stiffen. Sleep is disrupted. Digestion slows. Even your immune system can take a hit.
This is why people often get sick the moment they finally go on holiday after a big push at work. As the stress eases and cortisol drops, the body switches into recovery mode. The immune system suddenly gets the chance to do what it has been wanting to do for weeks, and the result can look like fatigue, muscle soreness or even catching a virus you were holding off.
Long term elevated cortisol has also been linked to:
Increased pain sensitivity
Reduced physical performance
Difficulty concentrating and memory issues
Heightened anxiety or low mood
And yes, flare ups of back and neck pain are incredibly common during high stress times.
So… What can you do about it?
The goal is not to eliminate stress completely. That is unrealistic. Instead, it is about giving your body the support it needs so stress does not take the driver’s seat, especially when pain is involved. Here is what can make a meaningful difference:
1. Reconnect with what brings joy
Laughter, social connection and positive interactions can help turn down the brain’s pain alarm. When you laugh, your body releases endorphins which are natural pain relievers and mood boosters.
Meet a friend for a chat
Watch something that makes you giggle
Do something simply because it feels good
It is simple but scientifically powerful.
2. Understand your pain, knowledge is calming
When pain strikes during stress, it is very common to expect the worst.
That worry itself increases tension and amplifies pain signals.
A Physiotherapist can help you:
Understand which tissues are irritated
Learn why stress makes pain feel stronger
Identify movements that help recovery
Build a plan that restores confidence
Pain often eases when the brain feels safe. Education is one of the best ways we achieve that.
3. Move your body, even a little counts
Movement nourishes your joints, reduces protective muscle guarding and boosts circulation which helps healing. The trick is appropriate and gradual exercise.
Try:
Gentle stretching or mobility work
A short walk to reset your system
Breathing focused Pilates or core strengthening
We tailor exercise specifically to what your body needs during a flare up.
4. Prioritise sleep and recovery
High cortisol loves poor sleep and poor sleep makes pain worse.
Small, consistent habits help break that cycle:
Create a wind down routine
Reduce screen use before bed
Maintain a regular sleep and wake schedule
Better sleep means a calmer nervous system and reduced pain.
5. Calm the nervous system
Stress keeps your body stuck in fight or flight. We want to guide it gently back into rest and repair.
Helpful strategies include:
Deep breathing techniques
Mindfulness or meditation apps
Regular stretch breaks throughout the day
These reduce tension and help your body feel safe again.
How physiotherapy can help
At Bend + Mend in the Sydney CBD, our Physiotherapists can help you:
- Understand the link between stress and back pain
- Treat your back pain to reduce symptoms
- Improve mobility and reduce muscle tension
- Build confidence in movement
- Develop a personalised exercise plan
Life is stressful enough. Pain should not add to the load.
Book in with one of our Sydney CBD Physiotherapists at Bend + Mend, and let us help you calm the nervous system, reduce your pain and get back to feeling like yourself again. And who knows… we might even share a laugh or two along the way!



